Posts Tagged ‘determination’

Someday Mermaids Might be Real

Tuesday, September 24th, 2013

Our little redhead has decided to become a mermaid.  Why this mermaid business has such an appeal, I don’t know but it is serious business for her.  She has watched every mermaid show she can find on the internet (we don’t subscribe to cable so the internet is her only option).

  • She has checked YouTube for others with a similar interest and has learned all she can. A few weeks ago, she found someone who had a formula to make you become a mermaid. She tried it but it didn’t work.

She revisited the site a few days ago but I forbid her to try the formula again.  The kitchen just becomes too much of a mess. Besides, I’m not altogether certain she isn’t going to poison herself in her zeal to find just the right formula.

I’ve tried telling her that mermaids aren’t real.  She doesn’t believe me.  Of course, she also doesn’t believe me when I tell her vampires aren’t real. Recently, due to a serious lack of garlic in the house, she opted to cover her bedroom floor near her window with baking powder.  Her reasoning was that baking powder would work in a pinch as a substitute for garlic. That may be why the mermaid potion isn’t working. We might be missing some of the key ingredients and the substitute she is using is less than useful.

Not being a real mermaid hasn’t stopped her from practicing to become one. She has a mermaid costume from Halloween which wasn’t quite what she wanted so she talked grandpa into making her a mermaid fin for her feet. She stuffs both of her legs into one pant leg, puts on her swimming suit top and shoves her feet into the fin.   She can actually move around the house like this!

Psychologists tell us that play is the way children learn. That being the case, I am happy to see some of the things she is learning in spite of the baking soda and the kitchen messes. She is learning to make and pursue her goals. She hasn’t given up in spite of setbacks. She has researched her subject to learn all she can. She has tried experiments and will doubtless try again when I’m not looking. She has the formula written down and I’m sure she will put in some time talking grandpa into taking her to the store to buy the right ingredients. If that doesn’t work, I’m sure she’ll be tweaking that formula with her own little touches. She is learning persistence in the face of failure.

She is practicing her moves for that coming moment when she finally gets it right.

If she can hold onto all that enthusiasm and determination, if she can remember the steps for success she is learning  now, I’m sure we will someday see her achieve whatever it is she sets out to do. I may never have the spices I need when it comes time to cook and grandpa may never stop yelling each time he steps in the kitchen and discovers her latest attempts at perfecting her formula but I am happy to report that our little redhead will someday be top dog at whatever she chooses to do.

July 11 Daily Quote

Wednesday, September 12th, 2012

We all have dreams. But in order to make dreams come into reality, it takes an awful lot of determination, dedication, self-discipline, and effort.
Jesse Owens


There are no fairy godmothers in life. If you have a dream, you’re going to have to have the inner strength and determination to go get it yourself.  You can’t rub a lamp and get three wishes.  You have to work if you are to reach your goals. A child is the only one who can depend on others to give them their dreams. As an adult, we have to give up on Santa and go get it ourselves.

Or as Jesse Owens has pointed out, you have to have plenty of determination, the dedication to persist in the face of obstacles, and the self-discipline to make yourself put in the effort even when you just don’t think  you can!

February 27 Quote of the Day

Monday, February 28th, 2000

Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world.
Harriet Tubman

Harriet Tubman was an American slave. Her life could not have been more difficult. As a child, she was beaten by slave owners and suffered a head wound which caused seizures for her throughout her life and yet she could dream. She dreamed of freedom, escaping to the north and then returning repeatedly to the south to rescue family members and others from slavery. During the Civil War, she lead a raid which liberated more than 700 slaves. She had a dream for herself and all the others who suffered in slavery and she acted on that dream. She changed her world. Our dreams may not be as big or as noble as her dream was but they still matter. We, too, can take our dreams and change our world if we just have the strength, the patience and the passion to do so. What is your dream? Go out there and make it happen!

February 19 Quote of the Day

Sunday, February 20th, 2000

You miss 100% of the shots you never take. Wayne Gretsky

A simple philosophy and yet a singularly impressive one from one of hockey’s greatest players. If you never take the shot, you will never score the goal. If you never try, you can’t succeed. Take the shot!